you wrote: I'm seeing people get angry and bitter over something which, frankly, really isn't any of their bloody business. Folks, when you have a dear friend in Realm die, THEN you're entitled to caterwaul and openly throw a fit about whether or not they "get on the memorial plaque" or "get their own tavern". Until then, you're looking at it from the outside, and you're missing a key piece in your reasoning." This IS every realmers business, whether you like it or not. We should EACH have an equal say, or NONE of us have a say. For you to rule out an entire group of people makes no sense. So I submit It IS my bloody business and my reasoning is sound. If Stephen does it for one, then he needs to do it for all. And I, like many others, do not wish to see OUR Realm turned into a memorial or graveyard. There are many other ways to honor your friend. This is not the only choice you have. I'll admit, on the surface it sounds very good. But think of the longer term, and what the Realm means to all of us. As always my E is there for flames if you choose. Mesda
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