So you choose to stay and fight this person to the death. To
die for someone is a noble sacrifice indeed, but you aren't doing
that. You are dying for yourself. You are letting pride stand
in the way of your love. I too thought this would be the right
answer, but this way you are only willing to give your life, though
no small gift, but you aren't willing to overcome your pride and
run away so that you can be with your love.